Hurting Restrictions in
Life
I am sure it is bound to be the
everybody’s life experience to have been subjected to suffer face the hurting
restrictions of Dos and Don’ts of deeds at some or the other time in life but
helpless do anything about that.
The compelling compulsions force to
obey the concern ones are on many counts move against the interest & feels on the
related matter but so sad unable to voice the protest explain merits of the own view
& desire of action & inaction thought be right to have initiated & just
harm none also.
The imposed restrictions are many
times have no logical reasoning but simply followed & also forced to accept as be
there since time immemorial, though may have been outdated & of no value any more
when the situations & life set up is different. The life pattern may have changed
& advanced but unfortunately the outlook of thinking appear be stagnant &
stale stink with grieves of the involved sufferers in agony. However no one have
courage to clean up & set better have some meaning.
The persons may have authority as head
of the family, official in charge or hold implied powers in society. They all try to
impose the restrictions based on customs & traditions or conventions prevail in
the family, cast, society & religion affect the personal life or be the set
working rules & regulations govern the office work or the followed norms of the
deals per the business policy. There are also laid down verdicts of law of the land
to be complied with & nobody is allowed to deviate from that, else can expect the
trouble for sure.
The nature & degree of the
punishments depend on the ongoing ways at that point of time & whims & fancy
of the person in command to regulate & decide the gravity of the offence. It is
hard to question why so & plead despite is unjust & may be harsh too. The
concerns can’t escape save self seek the considered favours.
The rule of Thumb says anybody try to
oppose the set ways of life, be looked down upon, hated to cut off all the
connections of the relations & treated as out of place permit to move with them.
They are regarded as senseless fanatic liberates to be left
alone.
Here is the wonder of life to ones
dismay & surprise as well. We can find that amongst the rules preachers there are
some who may have already availed the kind support in past whilst bypassing the rules
to fulfill the desire. Moreover there are people misuse own position & take the
advantage but crafty to get away easily, as who may like to displease the powerful
person is any ones guess.
Though may sound absurd, but there are
also people who really like the prevailing set of even insensible restrictions in
life, feel glad & comfortable to take enough of benefits live under that shelter
& be contented. It seems they treat the rulings as handy stick to frighten own
people or associates threat the insult of hurting whips & force to respect the
given orders.
Apart from such characters, we should
not forget few who wish to lead their life within the frame of prevailing
restrictions consider as Gospel truth & must be honoured, are that right or wrong least worry & don’t have any offending feels as
well. They don’t disturb or interfere with others & prefer remain in own world as
if nothing to do with anybody.
Life is really very complex &
difficult to understand the varying ways of human lives, be cruel & unkind to
some unfortunates & unusually helpful & be nice bliss with lucky
ones.
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